tick tock goes the time.

Someone once said,
if someone says things about others behind their back to you,
that someone will say things about YOU behind your back too, to someone else.

it's not a good feeling at all to know that others have been saying things about you to others, instead of saying it in your face.
so i'm sure some of you know just how it feels.
i don't know if i ever have, but i really hope i've never, complained or critiqued about others behind their backs.
but to those who do talk not-so-good things about other people to me,
i hope you will stop saying.
i don't wanna hear it anyway. :D
because i know you're doing the same thing behind my back. and that goes the same to others too.

it's just unfair. really.
i'm not pointing to anyone specifically, but it's to anyone,
if you have been saying nasty things, stop.
learn not to judge, but to find a time and sit down with the other person and tell them how you really feel instead.
if they accept it and thank you, well good job. if they don't, then keep praying for them.
but don't ever go on and say things behind backs again.

no one is perfect
and until you tell them face to face what they're doing wrong, they'll never know and what's the point in whispering when you can say it out loud?

it IS so much more appreciated. :)


Ephesians 4:32 And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you.